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Imagine you’re sitting opposite someone who might be your soulmate. You feel your heart racing, sweaty palms, and wonder if spinach is stuck in the back of your teeth. It can feel like you’re on a rollercoaster with no safety bar. Don’t worry. We have some tricks up our sleeves to help guide you on this wild ride. Read more now on Get tons of likes.

Don’t be yourself too much

You’ve probably heard “Be yourself”. This is good advice, but don’t take it literally. It’s important to be genuine, but save your obsession for collecting toenail trimmings for later conversations. Start by joking around and talking about shared interests. The goal is to create an environment where both parties feel comfortable and can be themselves without being overly open.

Listening Power

Imagine yourself at a music concert where all the songs are solos. There is no harmony. Imagine a situation where one person dominates the conversation. Ask questions to show that you are genuinely interested in the other person and their opinions. Listening doesn’t mean just listening to words. It also means understanding the feelings and experiences of others.

Dress to impress (but comfortably)

Comfort should always be prioritized over style. It will show up in your demeanor if those shoes pinch your toes or the dress prevents you from breathing. Wear something comfortable and confident.

The Right Setting

The location can make or break your date faster than “awkward quiet.” Consider places where the conversation is easy to have. For example, cozy cafes or casual restaurants are better than loud clubs and fancy restaurants.

Keep it Light

You shouldn’t discuss heavy subjects like politics or past relationships on your first date unless you are interested in seeing how quickly someone can get out of an awkward situation. Stick to lighter topics like funny childhood stories, travel dreams or favorite movies.

Attention to body language

Sometimes actions speak louder than the words. Crossed hands may indicate discomfort, whereas leaning in might show interest. Mirroring one another’s movements subconsciously can help build rapport.

Don’t Ghost–Communicate!

Do not disappear like Houdini’s assistant if the date doesn’t go as planned. Simple text messages that explain how you feel can go a long way to maintaining respect and decent behavior.

Humor can go a long way

Share funny stories or light-hearted jokes, but avoid anything too risque until you know each other better. If you’re just getting to know one another, share some lighthearted stories or jokes. But avoid anything too risque.

Plan Ahead But Stay Flexible

It is important to have a plan, but it’s also crucial to be flexible. Prepare a backup plan in case the cafe you’ve chosen is unexpectedly closed. Better yet, ask your customers what they prefer.

Sincerity is the best policy

You don’t want to lead your partner down the wrong path by letting them think you are serious when they’re having fun.

You now have a wealth of information that can help you turn your nerve-wracking dates into a memorable experience. These pointers will be useful whether you’re a newbie to dating, or if you’re returning to it after a long break.